Sunday, October 26, 2008

1. When People Won't Change

This is probable one of the most annoying things i can think of. It's not that i think everyone should change into some society of perfectionists, that's the Popes job and he can keep it. No offense to all you Catholics, i just don't like the pope.

Anyways, this may just be me but i have this problem of picking people apart and finding there faults. Ask me about anyone and i could give you a tirade about what's wrong with them. I'm working to change that, also i have a problem with noticing the small details about people and what's important to them and missing the things that really do matter. You know, those things that if they were signs would be neon yellow blinking in the middle of the road, yeah I'm the idiot that would crash through that sign and keep driving and not notice it, at all. Working on fixing that too.

I guess the whole point of that is that i know things about me that need to change and I'm willing to embrace them and make myself a better person by fixing them. It's not easy, I have said it before, no one likes to change. Yet i think we have too.

I don't mean like someone says "You should do this cause i want you too" i mean you do something a lot, and you know it's wrong, or it's something that you think should be different. Don't change for other people change for yourself. Sometimes it takes someone else to point it out to you that you need to change. Don't fight it, embrace it and fix it. It's not easy, I know but you have to make a conscience effort. If you make i conscience effort to fix it, it becomes easier.

I guess that is what pisses me off the most about this. When someone refuses to make a conscience effort to make themselves a better person because their too egotistical and full of themselves to care. They may not be the case but in my opinion it is. Well I am not going to ramble on any longer so I'm leaving. But a ask you this, What about you do you want to change, after you ask yourself that go out and do something about it.
Making The Change,
Tufte

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